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Wedding Guest Dos and Don'ts

As a wedding guest, it's essential to know what's expected of you on this joyous occasion. Whether you're close friends or distant acquaintances, there are certain dos and don'ts that will ensure you have a wonderful time while also respecting the happy couple.

The Etiquette Guide

Do Arrive On Time​

Arriving fashionably late is considered rude in wedding etiquette. Make sure to double-check the RSVP deadline and arrival time so you can plan accordingly. This not only shows respect for the couple but also allows you to enjoy the pre-ceremony festivities and catch up with other guests.

Don't Upstage the Couple​

While it's lovely to celebrate your friendship or relationship with the happy couple, avoid drawing attention away from them on their special day. Refrain from wearing anything that might be considered too flashy or competing for the spotlight in photos.

Do Dress Accordingly​

Check the dress code specified by the couple and adhere to it. A well-dressed guest is a thoughtful one. Also, consider the venue's dress code and the time of year when planning your outfit.

Don't Take Photos Without Permission​

It's generally understood that guests can take photos during the reception, but refrain from taking pictures during the ceremony unless explicitly asked by the couple or their photographer. This ensures that the official wedding photographs are not compromised.

Do Be Supportive and Respectful​

Weddings can be emotional experiences for everyone involved. Be prepared to offer support and respect to the couple on their special day. Avoid making jokes about sensitive topics, such as divorce or infidelity, which might make others feel uncomfortable.

Don't Bring an Uninvited Guest​

While it's understandable that you might want to bring a friend along, make sure they're actually invited by the couple before bringing them to the wedding. This helps maintain a manageable guest list and avoids any awkwardness for the hosts.

Do Participate in Wedding Traditions​

Participating in traditional wedding customs like the bouquet toss or first dance is a lovely way to get involved and show your enthusiasm for the happy couple. Just make sure you're aware of any specific rules or guidelines provided by the couple beforehand.

Don't Get Too Familiar With the Couple's Family Members​

While it's great to get to know the couple's family members, avoid overstepping boundaries by being too familiar with them on their wedding day. Remember that they might be dealing with a range of emotions and need some time to focus on the happy couple.

By following these dos and don'ts, you'll not only have an enjoyable experience as a wedding guest but also show respect for the happy couple's special day.